FAQ’s About My Upcoming Wedding (Part 4)

May 2, 2011

This is the last FAQ’s I will be posting before the wedding, which is May 14th, in case you are counting down the days like I am!

15. Will you be carrying a clutch?

I searched far and wide for the perfect clutch and could not find anything close to what I was envisioning.  Thus, I turned to Etsy yet again and decided if I could not find what I wanted, why not just custom design something?  I found a shop that was willing to carry out my vision and I love the final product.  The clutch is pink on the outside and red on the inside (our wedding colors) and it has a special message sewn on to it to commemorate the day.

16. Are you having a Bachelorette Party?

Absolutely, but it is top secret for now.  Just know that there will be lots of champagne and gossip involved!

17. Will you wear a garter?

One of the dearest people in my life is my ex-College Professor.  I am the woman I am today, because of what she taught me both inside and outside of the classroom.  I am sad that she will not be able to attend my wedding (she has classes to teach), however she offered to hand-make my garter for me, so that her presence would in some way be there.  I told her to surprise me and surprise me she did!  Not only did she create the perfect garter, but she made me two (one to keep and one to toss) AND she wrote me the most gorgeous card explaining why she created the garter the way she did.

18. How will you display your rings during the ceremony?

Up until a couple of weeks ago I was simply going to have our wedding officiant hold onto the rings for us, however I had this unexplainable feeling that I had to find something to properly display the rings.  Again, I turned to Etsy and while I found a lot of beautiful ring dishes, none pulled at my heartstrings.  That is until I stumbled across a shop that was willing to custom design one for me.  I sent over a picture of our invite:

And from it, this was created:

I am so glad that I listened to that feeling I had!

19. Do you have a wedding planner?

Yes, who just so happens to be one of my best friend’s!  Julie came into my life six years ago and ever since that day she has remained a big part of my life.  She too married an Argentine.  Unlike me though, she left New York City, reinvented herself, and has been living in Buenos Aires ever since.  I owe my sense of style to her.  In my eyes she defines the word fashionista!  Before we were close friends, she was actually my stylist.  Along with being my wedding planner, she is also my Matron of Honor.  Everyone deserves a Julie in their life.

From day one of my wedding planning, I knew that I could trust her completely with making any and all decisions on my behalf.  I truly owe her a world of gratitude for not only putting together the wedding of my dreams, but for holding my hand from 4,995 miles away every.single.day over the last year.  Julie is truly a life concierge!

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Andi Perullo de Ledesma

I am Andi Perullo de Ledesma, a Chinese Medicine Doctor and Travel Photojournalist in Charlotte, NC. I am also wife to Lucas and mother to Joaquín. Follow us as we explore life and the world one beautiful adventure at a time.

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74 thoughts on “FAQ’s About My Upcoming Wedding (Part 4)

    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      I wish you were coming too sweetheart, but I know you’ll be there in spirit holding my hand!!! Thank you for being such a big support in my life. Lots of love!

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  1. Annie

    As soon as I saw you tweet I had to read! I love everything that you have done, what a beautiful wedding it will be! Even if I don’t really ‘know’ you I can just tell how absolutely perfect everything is to fit your style!

    Love it, can’t wait to hear more about the prep for and finally the big day!

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      Haha, I know that several people have been eagerly awaiting this post! Wanted to wait until closer to the wedding to go live with it. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all of your kind words, they truly mean the world to me!!! Can’t wait to share the wedding photos with everyone! XOXO

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  2. Akila

    Your wedding is going to be unbelievable. You’ve put so much thought into every tiny little detail. I can’t wait to see how it goes — tthough I know it’s going to be absolutely gorgeous!

    Have you revealed where you’re honeymooning or is that a surprise for all of us blog readers?

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      Thank you X 1000!!! I can’t wait to see how it goes too haha! There are still a lot of details that I haven’t revealed yet, but I need to keep some secrets right!?! I did reveal that we’re honeymooning in 4 different cities in Brasil, just not which cities and which places we’ll be staying at. I’m going to be posting the info along the way, so that people can “follow us.” XOXO

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  3. Cata

    Are Your bags ready? That will b my concern the days before the trip. At least my sister is flying 2 days after me. If I forget something she could bring it 🙂 I love the clutch. I don’t think I will get one… Probably I will just make my mom bring my makeup in hers

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      Haha, babe I packed 2 weeks ago!!! I’m the world’s most anal packer. I have 2 bags (1 for Argentina and 1 for Brasil) + 1 carry on and my wedding dress (which I’m carrying on). I love my clutch too, if you decide to have one you can always custom make one on Etsy too!

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  4. Jeremy B

    It’s interesting to read all of these details. I may overstep my bounds here and I will be blunt. I know many women find the details interesting and stressful. However, when that day comes all of this stuff won’t matter. Years later you won’t even remember this stuff or care. Just my two cents 🙂

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      You totally didn’t overstep your bounds and I’m glad to hear from a guy! I agree and disagree. I think for me the details were super important. I wanted to make my wedding unique and special and I would have absolutely regretted it until the day I died if I hadn’t. Having said that, I feel like A LOT of women lose sight over the fact that at the end of the day it should be a celebration of the marriage and not the wedding. Thanks for your 2 cents my friend!

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  5. Abby

    I loooove these creative details and emailed the post to my best friend, who’s getting married in June. (Shannon will be there!) She’ll love it. You are such a rock star — you’re definitely more prepared for this trip than I am. I am sooo panicked and stressed. See you this week!!!!!

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      I’m SO glad you loooove them haha! I tried my best to put as much thought and care as I possibly could into every single detail. Glad people can see that! Please tell your friend that she’s welcome to contact me if she has any questions. I’m excited for you and Shannon, you will have the time of your life in Hawaii!!! Nos vemos prontito bonita!

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  6. AudreyDez

    my god! your wedding is less than 2 weeks away already?!? That’s crazyyyyy! Can’t wait to see the beautiful pictures!!:)

    And yet, another use of my graphics, it’s so sweet:) I feel blessed to be such a big part of your wedding! It’s like I’m going to be there!

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      You are absolutely going to be there in spirit, you are SUCH a big part of the wedding! I have used your graphic for quite a bit of the decorations. I could never possibly thank you enough for this AMAZING present you have given me. I’m forever indebted to you. Much love!

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  7. Louise

    I love it! Thank you for making ME feel so special. I love you and will be thinking of you all day on May 14th and will be wishing you the most memorable, perfect day ever. XOXO

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      I’m glad you liked your little shout out! You deserve a billboard though. My garters are AMAZING!!! Love you so much and I’ll be sending you kisses from Argentina sooooooon. XOXO

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  8. Andrea

    SO excited!! Love all of it! The garter is so sexy…and I loved seeing the invitation since we’re sin mailbox at the moment, haha See you soon xx

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      Yay, glad you love it all!!! Isn’t the garter awesome? It’s sooo perfect! I promise to show you the invite in person oh so soon! XOXO

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  9. Sheryll

    I love how all of your details are so personal and handcrafted. Makes your special day even MORE special! It’s going to be the most gorgeous wedding ever!

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  10. 101 Things Before You Die

    I know I’ve said it before but I really do love your invites…and I’m glad its design could be used for your ring bowl. It exhausts me to think of how many small details you have put into this wedding but I also love how everyone will notice that your relationship is included even in the smallest details/that everything was deliberate.

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      Thank you sooo much for this incredible comment!!! If people do notice the small details, then it will have been worth all of the crazy planning I did over the last year! XOXO

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      It’s come together, now lets keep our fingers crossed that on the big day it stays together and there are no problems! Thank you kindly for your sweet words.

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  11. Natalie T.

    LOVE these details! I am SO excited for you. It’s going to be an amazing ceremony and if I ever get married and have a travel theme, I will be coming to YOU! xo

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      Haha, please do come to me for advice, I feel like I could become a wedding planner now! Can’t thank you enough for your kind words!!! XOXO

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  12. kay*

    everything ties together so well! i can’t believe the big day is almost here. everything looks beautiful, you’re gonna be a beautiful bride – just incredible!

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      I can’t believe it’s almost here either. The 1st 6 months of the engagement felt like it was creeping by and the 2nd 6 months went by in the blink of an eye! Thanks for your kind words, they mean SO much to me!!!

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      I have tears in my eyes, thank you thank you thank you!!! I’m going to try to enjoy ever single second, I don’t want it to go by in a blur! XOXO

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  13. Ceri

    Oh, Andi, 11 days to go! I’m so excited for you. This is going to be one of the most beautiful weddings ever. I hope you don’t mind if on the 14th I post a little tribute to you and Lucas on my blog. I know it’s going to be a magical day and, not only is this blog one of my favourites, but you’re just awesome, girl! 😀

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      Awww thank you sincerely! I’m SO delighted that my readers love my wedding details!!! I worked really hard on my travel theme not being TOO themy LOL! Isn’t the clutch fabulous? The designer nailed my vision!!!

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  14. Amelia Keith

    I can not wait to see the photos of your wedding day. From everything I have read (yes…..all of the FAQ’s on your blog LOL) it is TRULY a fairy tale wedding. You will be a beautiful bride. I am so happy for you guys.

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      I promise to share the photos just as a fast as I can! I know a lot of people want to see them haha. Thank you sweetheart for your kind words, I am so touched!!!

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  15. Krista

    So so SOOOOO excited for you, darling! 🙂 Hooray! Hooray! So many beautiful things that are uniquely YOU. I love it. 🙂 Makes my heart happy to see you so deliciously flustered. 🙂

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      Haha I think you just created a new phrase that I will forever use now: deliciously flustered. Love it! And that so perfectly describes me!!! Thanks for being such an awesome and supportive friend! XOXO

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  16. Kyle

    Oooh, I just came back to catch up on your blog after a couple days with no internet and was met with this treat! I love how all your details really have meaning for you and Lucas. So much love put into everything…

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      I’m so happy that I was able to proved you with a special treat! I literally can’t imagine anyone else shooting my wedding. Thanks for being such a big part of making my wedding dreams come true my love!!!

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      Haha lots of sweat and tears!!! The details I had fun with, it was choosing the bigger things that I didn’t enjoy as much. Fingers crossed it all comes together perfectly! Thanks for your kind words.

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  17. jade

    Love all the final details, Andi! You are going to be a gorgeous bride and I really admire all the personal touches you put into your ceremony. So many people just go with impersonal things and each part of your day will be so special and personal. Much love and congrats!!

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    1. Andi Perullo Post author

      It fills my heart with joy to hear that you love everything I picked! I agree, that so many people spend ridiculous amounts of money on impersonal weddings. I refused to do that! I’m glad it shows!!! Much love back and thanks!!!!!!!!

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  18. sarah

    I adore this blog and every thing about it. I have been reading it for awhile but have yet to say hello. well…Hello!

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