Personality In A Glass: What Your Cocktail Says About You

June 3, 2025

With the warmer months just around the corner, it is almost time to fire up the barbecue, dust off the sunglasses, and start plotting those garden parties, rooftop drinks, and cheeky beach getaways. Whether you are soaking up the sun in the back garden, kicking back on holiday, or clinking glasses at a London social club high above the skyline, one thing is for sure: summer calls for a cocktail.

Your cocktail of choice might be saying more about you than you realize. In fact, it could be spilling secrets about your personality before you’ve even taken your first sip.

Whether you are a fan of something timeless and refined, a lover of bold flavors, or partial to a tropical escape in a glass, there is a story behind every order. So, what does your favorite cocktail say about you?

Let us take a look, and since we are all about balance, you will find each recipe below, with a little twist to make it your own.

Martini – The Classicist

You are all about elegance, intention, and knowing what works. A martini person doesn’t dabble, they decide. Your wardrobe is probably a mix of clean silhouettes and timeless staples, your calendar is organised, and your phone is always charged. People look to you when they need a voice of reason or a restaurant recommendation that never misses.

You are calm in a crisis, sharp in a meeting, and likely the person who leaves a party early and still manages to feel mysterious.

You will need:

  • 60ml gin
  • 10ml dry vermouth
  • Lemon twist or olive (depends how Bond you’re feeling)

How to make it:
Stir gin and vermouth over ice until chilled to perfection. Strain into a martini glass, garnish, and serve with a raised eyebrow.

For a twist:
Swap gin for vodka to keep it clean, but a little more contemporary.

Margarita – The Life Of The Party

You are a walking good time. Bold, bubbly, and full of zest, you are the kind of person people turn to when they want to really let loose. You bring energy to every room you enter, and have a rare gift for making strangers feel like friends.

Spontaneous is your default setting. Your camera roll is full of blurry photos, your suitcase is always half-packed, and your stories start with “you had to be there.”

You will need:

  • 50ml tequila
  • 25ml Cointreau
  • 20ml fresh lime juice
  • Salt rim and lime wedge

How to make it:
Rub the glass with lime, dip in salt, shake the rest with ice, and pour. Brace yourself for compliments (and possibly karaoke).

For a twist:
Add a splash of fresh orange juice or a chilli salt rim for a little bite.

Old Fashioned – The Steady Hand

Reliable. Grounded. Comforting in a world that is moving too fast. You are the friend who shows up on time, never flakes, and remembers everyone’s coffee order. You believe in doing things properly, whether it is polishing your shoes or mixing your drinks.

Classic does not mean boring. You have just got depth and quiet confidence. You value tradition, but you are not stuck in the past. In fact, you are probably the one keeping everyone else balanced.

You will need:

  • 50ml bourbon or rye
  • 1 sugar cube
  • A few dashes of Angostura bitters
  • Orange peel

How to make it:
Muddle sugar and bitters, add the bourbon, a big ice cube, and stir with purpose. Garnish with orange peel and take your time.

For a twist:
Add a few drops of chocolate bitters for a richer, deeper sip.

Negroni – The Curious One

You are an old soul with modern tastes. A thinker, a talker, a little mysterious, Negroni lovers are often the ones asking big questions over candlelit tables. You enjoy the finer things (but never showy), and you gravitate towards rich, layered experiences.

People might call you intense, but you just care deeply about ideas, places and people. You are hard to pigeonhole, and you like it that way.

You will need:

  • 25ml gin
  • 25ml Campari
  • 25ml sweet vermouth
  • Orange slice

How to make it:
Pour over ice in a rocks glass, stir gently, and garnish with an orange slice. Drink like you have seen things.

For a twist:
Swap gin for prosecco to create a lighter, spritzier Negroni Sbagliato.

Mojito – The Free Spirit

You are the spontaneous road-tripper, the barefoot dancer, the “let us just see where the night takes us” type. People love being around you because you bring lightness into the room and you never take things too seriously.

Your energy is magnetic, and you have that rare ability to roll with the punches. You probably own more than one plant, and your passport gets a decent amount of use.

You will need:

  • 50ml white rum
  • 25ml lime juice
  • 2 tsp sugar
  • Fresh mint
  • Soda water

How to make it:
Muddle mint, lime, and sugar in a glass. Fill with ice, pour in rum, top with soda, stir, and enjoy under a string of fairy lights.

For a twist:
Throw in a few raspberries or passionfruit pulp for a fruity remix.

Espresso Martini – The Night Owl

You thrive when the sun goes down. Always juggling ten ideas, five group chats, and at least one side hustle. Espresso Martini fans are effortlessly cool with just a dash of chaos, and we mean that affectionately.

You are driven, charming, and probably a bit of a flirt. Sleep? That is future you’s problem.

You will need:

  • 40ml vodka
  • 20ml coffee liqueur
  • 20ml fresh espresso
  • Coffee beans to garnish

How to make it:
Shake everything with ice until it is frothy and cold. Strain into a chilled martini glass and finish with three beans (for luck, obviously).

For a twist:
Add a splash of Baileys or salted caramel syrup for a creamy, indulgent kick.

Bloody Mary – The Brunch Enthusiast

You are thoughtful, funny, and know how to nurse both hangovers and friendships. Bloody Mary drinkers are the type who host low-key brunches with jazz in the background and know how to put people at ease.

You are a little spicy, a little salty, and full of substance.

You will need:

  • 50ml vodka
  • 100ml tomato juice
  • 10ml lemon juice
  • Worcestershire sauce, Tabasco, salt & pepper (to taste)
  • Celery stick and lemon wedge

How to make it:
Build everything over ice, stir like you are casting a healing spell, garnish, and get comfy.

For a twist:
Add a splash of pickle juice or a wasabi rim for something extra savoury.

Cosmopolitan – The Showstopper

You have flair. You love a polished entrance, a sharp comeback, and you definitely know your angles. A Cosmo fan is confident, expressive, and always in the know.

People look to you for the group selfie, the party playlist, and the best gossip. And honestly? You deliver.

You will need:

  • 40ml vodka
  • 15ml triple sec
  • 15ml cranberry juice
  • 10ml lime juice
  • Lime twist

How to make it:
Shake everything with ice, strain into a martini glass, and serve with a knowing smile.

For a twist:
Use blood orange liqueur instead of triple sec for a darker, sexier version.

Piña Colada – The Daydreamer

You are the one with your head in the clouds and sand in your soul. Relaxed, kind-hearted, and a little nostalgic, you make every setting feel like a holiday.

You do not need much to be happy, just good company, warm weather, and something fruity in your glass.

You will need:

  • 50ml white rum
  • 25ml coconut cream
  • 50ml pineapple juice
  • Pineapple slice and cherry

How to make it:
Blend with crushed ice until it is smooth and beachy. Garnish and pretend you are somewhere tropical, even if you are just in your garden.

For a twist:
Add a dash of dark rum on top for a more layered, grown-up flavor.

Whiskey Sour – The Thinker

You are thoughtful, introspective, and always down for a deep chat, ideally over candlelight. You have got a good balance of light and dark, and your humor is dry, but your heart is warm.

People trust you with secrets and wine lists.

You will need:

  • 50ml bourbon
  • 25ml lemon juice
  • 15ml sugar syrup
  • Optional: egg white
  • Lemon or cherry to garnish

How to make it:
Shake everything (dry shake first if using egg white), then add ice and shake again. Strain and garnish with a flourish.

For a twist:
Add a few muddled blackberries or a splash of red wine on top for a New York sour spin.

One Last Sip…

Your favorite cocktail is not just a drink, it is a little window into who you are, what you love, and how you show up in the world. Whether you are a martini minimalist or a piña colada escapist, own it. And if you like to switch it up? That just means you are full of surprises.

Here is to knowing yourself, one sip at a time!

 

Andi Perullo de Ledesma

Andi Perullo de Ledesma

I am Andi Perullo de Ledesma, a Chinese Medicine Doctor and Travel Photojournalist in Charlotte, NC. I am also wife to Lucas and mother to Joaquín. Follow us as we explore life and the world one beautiful adventure at a time.

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