Five Ways To Enliven Your Relationship

September 15, 2016

Any relationship goes through various stages. In the very beginning, we all are immersed in our affection and see the world in pink. However, things may get completely different after a while. How do you make it right and keep the flame alive? Let us figure it out together with our experts from

Uncover The Problem

For many people, it is the hardest thing ever. The modern tempo of life makes us rather shallow, as we have to manage dozens of tasks within just a day. In this mad race, men and women often fear of facing some unpleasant truths. That is why many of us refuse to recognize there are problems with their love life. So, the first thing you should do is calm your anxiety and confess to yourself: yes, there is something wrong. After this critical step is made, your task is to define what is actually wrong with your romance. State the problem and try to investigate what might have caused it. Keep in mind there are usually both partners in charge of any conflicts, thus do not blame just one of you. After admitting that something’s off in your relationship, the next step is finding ways to rekindle that lost spark. For men looking to step up in their love life, understanding how to be more manly can be a game-changer in solving underlying issues. This approach can help you show up more powerfully in your relationship, contributing to resolving whatever problem you’ve identified.

Talk And Listen

What you should do next is to initiate the proper communication, which is indeed the core ingredient of a healthy relationship. As you remember, any conflict resolution involves two people. Be it you or your mate who triggers this process, no situation can be worked out without a proper dialogue. Do not neglect your mate’s initiatives. If you really wish to fix the problem in your couple, it s unacceptable to act aggressively. No matter how annoyed or displeased you are, find some time to put your thoughts in order before you start working on your situation: you must be ready to listen to your partner and to express your mind in a clear and constructive manner.

Work Out Your Schedule

A normal interaction requires a certain amount of free time. The contemporary lifestyle is fast and super busy. Consequently, it becomes harder to find a proper moment for resolving a conflict. We all have our own business tasks, areas of interests, and schedules. But if you are into this person, you must set your timetable in a way that will enable you to escape the outer world and focus on your problem. Let it be an hour or two in a day, not 24/7. Just make sure you can save some time for only the two of you. The most important factor is an atmosphere you create: relaxing, comfortable, and pleasant.

Escape The Routine

In fact, even the most passionate romance sooner or later overcomes its honeymoon phase. The daily routine enters any long-term relationship. The other thing is how personally you and your mate will handle it. Allure and sexual tension decrease in the course of time, this is the norm. So a real bond should be based on more solid elements such as feelings, trust, friendship, understanding, and sincerity. If two people are really compatible, they are able to think out the ways to enliven their daily life. We would strongly recommend you taking care of your mutual self-development, as stagnation can bring nothing fresh to your existence.

Fix Your Sexual Life

No one is a fantastically skilled lover from birth. Even if some guys imagine they are unsurpassable, this can be quite far from the truth. Just in terms of healthy self-esteem, we suggest you pay your attention to mastering the art of making love. Both you and your mate should become continuous learners. Bases are critical yet they can get really boring with time. Not that we offer you trying anything creepy, but a certain degree of kink may strengthen your romantic connection. Merely do not forget to ask your partners opinion before opening new horizons.

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Andi Perullo de Ledesma

I am Andi Perullo de Ledesma, a Chinese Medicine Doctor and Travel Photojournalist in Charlotte, NC. I am also wife to Lucas and mother to Joaquín. Follow us as we explore life and the world one beautiful adventure at a time.

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